GORG!

Christian Louboutin Josefa 120 platform sandals $1,025

Must Have

Hailed as Daisy's older sister, Marc Jacobs Lola is a warm floral bouquet that conveys the free spirit of today's sexy, modern girl. The day-and-night scent opens with pink peppercorn, pear, and ruby red grapefruit. Blooming midnotes of rose, fuschia peony, and geranium make a feminine statement. Vanilla, warm tonka bean, and creamy musk create a sensous drydown.

Cake Shows

I Don't Really Like Cake But I Love Watching Them Make Amazing Ones on TLC's Cake Boss and Food Network's Ace of Cakes. Cake Boss Airs on Mondays and Ace of Cakes on Thursdays.

PostSecret of the Day

Did You Know?

Men's saliva contains the hormone testosterone which is known to be an aphrodisiac.

R.I.P.

Read Between His Lines

He Says: "I'm not looking for a relationship."

He Means: "I really just want to do you."

Fun Find

Remember the Fanny-Pack? Well this updated version straight out of the 80's is a Fanny-Pack for your head. Available in 8 colors for $12.99 from Cap-Sac.

Easy Ways To Go Green

1. Don't print ATM reciepts-Check your balance on the screen instead and save the paper.
2. Stop gettting junk mail-If you are constantly getting flyers and ads in the mail from companies or stores you don't use then log onto www.greendimes.com to take your name off of any random mailing lists.
3. Save energy from your computer-Try www.blackle.com , it's backgrounds are black not white so your computer uses less energy. Just 2 google searches equals as much energy as boling a cup of tea.

The Nanny Now On Nick-At-Nite...

The Nanny stars actress Fran Drescher as Fran Fine, a charming and bubbly Jewish Queens, NY native who casually becomes the nanny of three children from the New York City upper class. Originally airing from 1993-1999, it is now airing nightly on Nickelodeon.

How To Catch Him In a Lie

1. Their Legs Say a Lot-If a guy wraps his legs around the legs of a chair or stool, it’s an indication that he’s purposefully holding something back — like the truth.
2. They’ll Give You Pause-Ask a simple, straightforward question — say, “Where were you last night?” or even “Are you cheating on me?” If there’s a long pause or he repeats the question before answering, that’s trouble.
3. Their Thumbs Betray Discomfort-If he’s standing with his entire hand in his pockets — in other words, his thumbs are in, not out — he’s feeling nervous. It’s up to you to figure out why.
4. They Can’t Lie in Reverse-If someone is telling a story you find fishy, ask questions that force him to relate events in a different order. While a person who’s concocted a false story can tell it in a,b,c,d order, he’ll often find it almost impossible to tell it in d,c,b,a order.
5. They’ll Shrug at Odd Times-If he’s saying something definitive — “I was with my buddies last night!” — while shrugging one or both shoulders, watch out. The movement indicates that he’s subconsciously remaining uncommitted to what he’s saying.
6. They Have Big Buts-Listen for phrases like this: “I know you’ll think this is strange, but...” or “You’re not going to believe this, but...” Chances are, whatever comes next is a lie.
7. Their Tongues Don’t Lie-If you ask someone a question and he momentarily flicks out his tongue or licks his lips before answering, he believes he’s about to get away with something.
8. They’ll Hold Your Gaze-Sometimes a liar is so intent on proving his sincerity he’ll stare into your eyes for an uncomfortably long time, trying to prove to you that he has nothing to hide.
9. They Can’t Adapt-Just as a liar is unable to reverse the order of events in a falsehood, he also has trouble adjusting when one component is disproven. So if you’re able to call him out on one facet of a lie and he still refuses to change his story, you can be pretty sure that the rest is B.S. too.
10. They’ll Give You a Hand-A liar doesn’t want you to examine what he says too closely. And so he’ll often unconsciously bring a hand to his face — to scratch a nose, or rub an eye, or stroke a chin — in an attempt to “block” the words as they’re coming out of his mouth.

PostSecret of The Day

PostSecret is an ongoing community mail art project in which people mail their secrets anonymously on one side of a homemade postcard.http://postsecret.blogspot.com/

Clean Your Bling...

1. Close the drain in the sink.
2. Soak the ring in a sink filled with hot water.
3. Fill a small dish - such as a contact lens dish - with window cleaner.
4. Transfer the ring from the hot water to the dish containing the window cleaner.
5. Let the ring soak for at least 10 minutes.
6. Dip an old toothbrush in window cleaner and scrub ring thoroughly for several minutes.
7. Refill the sink with hot water and soak the ring for a few minutes longer.
8. Continue scrubbing with the toothbrush, now under a flow of hot water.
9. Rinse well under hot water.
10. Repeat, if necessary, until you achieve a brilliant shine.

J'Adore

Grey Gardens

A 2009 HBO film starring Drew Barrymore and Jessica Lange, based on the life stories of the eccentric aunt and first cousin of Jackie Onassis (both named Edith Bouvier Beale aka "Big and Little Edie") who were raised as Park Avenue débutantes but who withdrew from New York society, taking shelter at their Long Island summer home, "Grey Gardens." As their wealth and contact with the outside world dwindled, so did their grasp on reality. They were reintroduced to the world when international tabloids learned of a health department raid on their home, and Jackie swooped in to save her relatives.

Did You Know?

It was illegal to sell E.T. dolls in France because there is a law against selling dolls without human faces.

GORGE!

Herve Leger by Max Azria Sequin Bandage Dress-$2,800

Say What?

"Snozberries...who ever heard of a snozberry?"-Veruca Salt in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (1971)

The Asteroids Galaxy Tour

With their debut album set to be realeased this month, The Asteroids Galaxy Tour, a Danish alternative band consisting of Mette Lindberg and Lars Iversen, are musicians on a mission dedicated to turning pop technicolour fun and making funk get down with folk by mixing old soul with psychedelic and spaced-out beats. Check out The Sun Ain't Shining No More and Around the Bend....

Celebrities in Wax

Ever wonder what happens to wax figures whenever they are out of style? Like when Michael Jackson or Madonna no longer look the way they once did. One would think they are melted down but one company Hollywood Wax Museums hold auctions where they raise money for the next generation of sculptures. So if you want a life size Mae West or Reba McEntire and you have a few thousand dollars lying around, visit their site.

Essential Read

Steve Harvey, the host of the nationally syndicated Steve Harvey Morning Show, can't count the number of impressive women he's met over the years, whether it's through the "Strawberry Letters" segment of his program or while on tour for his comedy shows. Yet when it comes to relationships, they can't figure out what makes men tick. Why? According to Steve it's because they're asking other women for advice when no one but another man can tell them how to find and keep a man. In Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, Steve lets women inside the mindset of a man and sheds lights on concepts and questions that we have always had in a hilarious and "tough love" way...this is totally worth the read.

Healthy Eating Portions

What your portions should resemble:

• Steak=Classic Ipod
• Cheese=Matchbox
• Pancake=DVD
• Pasta=Ice Cream Scoop
• Potato=Computer Mouse
• Fish=Checkbook
• Butter=Postage Stamp
• Salad Dressing=1 oz. Shot Glass
• Peanut Butter=Golf Ball
• Beans=Light Bulb
• Dark Chocolate=Dental Floss
  

Did You Know?

The average person spends 6 years of their life dreaming!

What He Never Notices...And What He Does...

He Never Notices:

• Labels-He isn't looking at the designers name on the back of your dress or jeans. Save your splurge clothes for the people who really notice-your girlfriends.
• Your Body Hangups-If you are obsessed with the numbers on the scale, realize that your guy most likely doesn't care. If he likes the way you look, he likes the way you look, period.
• Fancy Gift Wrap-Guys only want to get to the present.
• Your New Haircut-He only sees the whole you, not every wisp of your bangs and layers.
• Subtle Hints-When you mention what your friends boyfriend got her for a gift as a little hint hint, he will think you want to talk about your friend and nothing about the gift.

He Always Notices:

• Cute Habits-Your little quirks make you adorable to him.
• Other's Reactions-When you crack a joke or look really good, he loves that you're impressing his crew.
• Your Smell-Perfume or soap: he finds your scent sexy.

Proper Care For Your Handbag

• The Interior-Clean with a lint brush.
• The Shape-Put tissue paper in the bag when storing so it doesn't lose its shape.
• The Hardware-Remember that most hardware can easily be replaced.
• The Zippers-Apply a little natural beexwax over the open teeth of the zipper so they don't rust.
• The Exterior-Apply a leather conditioning cream so the texture stays firm.

Your Perfect Shoe Wardrobe

• Black Pumps
• Metallic Heels (Gold & Silver)
• Knee High Boots
• All-Weather Boots
• Ankle Boots
• Espadrilles/Wedges
• Flats
• Dressy Sneakers
• Kitten Heel Pumps
• Casual Sandals
• Open Toe Pumps
• Strappy Heels
• Classic Flip Flops

Read Between His Lines

He Says: "I don't get why girls like that dude."

He Means: " I'm a bit insecure-feel free to compliment me."

Say What?

"The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that just fabulous."

-Sex and The City

Lady in Red

Wearing red instantly boosts your mood because it's energizing and commands attention. If you are not bold enough to wear it but still want an emotional pick me up, try a subtler shade in the same color family.

• Orange-A mix of high-octane red and cherry yellow, this fun color sends out signals of approachability.
• Pink-The sweet side of red, pink makes you feel sensual and romantic.
• Purple-It's like red-dynamic and sexy. But the addition of blue makes it a bit more serene and tranquil.

Did You Know?

The average person spends 2 weeks of their life kissing.

The 5 Times You Shouldn't Text Him

1. After your first few dates. It may be tempting to contact a guy after an amazing date, but resist the urge. Reaching out lessens the thrill of the chase for him.
2. When you're drunk. Since phones don't come with Breathalyzers, it's up to you to stop yourself from sending a tipsy message — especially one that suggests you two meet up ASAP. Being too available lets a guy know he has all the leverage.
3. When you're angry. It's annoying when a guy flakes, but sending a "Why haven't you called me?!" inquiry makes you look massively insecure. Avoid angry texts once you're in a relationship too. When it's in writing, you can't easily take it back. It's even smart to ban bitchy humor, which can sound meaner than it is.
4. When you're trying to be funny. When relayed nonverbally, sarcasm and joking can come off as aggressive. A dude could read a message like "OMG, you were out of control last night" literally, which makes you sound pissed when you were actually just fondly remembering his funny behavior.
5. When you've already texted him that day. Once you're in an ongoing relationship, you may be tempted to rely on texting as a regular form of communication, and there's nothing wrong with staying in touch that way sometimes. But electronic communication discourages phone conversations and one-on-one time. Also, guys like brief updates, not a blow-by-blow of your life.

Read Between His Lines

He Says: "You're so mysterious."

He Means: "I haven't been able to figure you out yet and I'm feeling a little insecure about where I stand with you."

Cold Spoons

• How to do it: Keep a couple of spoons in the refrigerator. When you need to depuff quickly, press the back of one under each eye, holding it there for up to a minute.
  
• Why it works: The cold temp. reduces swelling beneath eyes, which can occur when you rub them or after a poor night's sleep.

Bored?

Get a group of friends together and grab your Ipods or MP3 players and have a silent rave! Go to a public place and all at once each person will listen to their music with their own headphones and dance. These types of "silent disco's" are popular during protests or demonstrations.

J'Adore

The Great Gatsby

A 1974 film where Nick Carraway, a young Midwesterner now living on Long Island, finds himself fascinated by the mysterious past and lavish lifestyle of his neighbor, the nouveau riche Jay Gatsby. He is drawn into Gatsby's circle, becoming a witness to obsession and tragedy.

PostSecret of the Day

PostSecret is an ongoing community mail art project in which people mail their secrets anonymously on one side of a homemade postcard.
http://postsecret.blogspot.com/

Be A Gracious Couch Crasher

Do:

1. Bring a little present
2. Make a plan for your activities
3. Offer to pay for a lunch or dinner
4. Be neat and pick up after yourself
5. Give thanks when you leave with a card or note.

Don't:

1. Just show up
2. Use their products without permission
3. Bring tons of stuff when you don't need to
4. Just jump in the shower when they might need it first
5. Use their computer because there could be private info.

Fun Find

Discreet and easy to use, the SoleMates High Heeler™ attaches easily to most stiletto and kitten heels. By increasing the surface area on the base of the heel, it reduces the pressure on this area and prevents the heel from sinking into grass or falling into cracks! $11.95 from SoleMates.

Read Between His Lines

He Says: "I didn't know you'd be so upset."

He Means: "I figured you would be so I decided to tell you before I did it."

Hair Color Decoder

What the color on the box really means...

• Berry-Bright Red
• Cinnamon-Deep Auburn
• Chocolate-Medium Brown
• Espresso-Rich Dark Brown
• Honey-Medium Brown
• Champagne-Light Ash Brown

What his bed sheets reveal?

• Basic-The average guy buys cheap, solid colored bedding. This fella is unlikely to spring and surprises on you in or out of the sack.


• Silky-If his sheets are satiny enough to double as a slip-n-slide, he may be a player who thinks luring you into his room will guarantee a score.


• Matching-A high thread count and matching duvet? His mom likely bought them and he'll expect you to take care of him in the same way.

GORGE!

Marc Jacobs Duffy Bag on Bag-$1,950

Did You Know?

A clothing item is considered vintage if it dates from 1920 to 1960. After that date, an item is considered to be retro, not vintage.

Top 10 Resolutions Not To Make...

1. Quit your job and wait for a dream career opportunity to present itself. Recession shmecession.

• Reality check: Suck it up and hang on to your gig for now. Appease yourself by taking a class or picking up a hobby that will make your résumé stand out, like learning a foreign language or starting a blog.

2. Lose five pounds.

• Reality check: 2008 proved that toned and curvy is the new skinny think Scar Jo and Beyonce.

3. Finally win back your ex-boyfriend.

• Reality check: Move on. Engage in some rebound relationship therapy.

4. Buy into all the latest trends.

• Reality check: It’s okay to be a slave to fashion...just be a slave to cheap fashion, rather than dropping serious bank on each and every look. Kick yourself later for wearing it, but don’t kick yourself for blowing your paycheck on it.

5. Change your man.

• Reality check: While some relationship tweaking is to be expected (hey, few guys are natural-born good kissers), if the words “fixer-upper” and “project” could describe your boyfriend, it’s time to get real.

6. Triple the number of friends you have on Facebook.

• Reality check: Less time stalking your friends’ friends’ friends. More time catching up with buddies you actually care about.

7. Don’t eat any junk food.

• Reality check: Cutting out all unhealthy food from your diet will most likely lead to binge eating, followed by intense guilt, by mid-January.

8. Watch less trashy TV.

• Reality check: Zoning out and de-stressing for a bit every night with the help of good bad television is harmless.

9. Save more money.

• Reality check: Let’s be honest. In this economy, we’re just happy to be able to pay our rent, gas, and credit card bill.

10. Keep your number down.

• Reality check: Nothin’ wrong with notches on your bedpost, as long as you’re being safe.

HAPPY 2009!